The Ex That Texts

Everyone has that ex that always tries to wiggle their way back into your life. Whether its through texts, calls, Facebook posts, Tweets, or the traditional face to face stalking you have to figure out a way to ignore the constant pestering. I specifically asked my ex boyfriend not to call or text me for awhile after he broke up with me, I knew I needed time to get over everything before I could ever even consider being his friend. So of course he started calling everyday.. i hit ignore. Then there was the Facebook comments on my pictures and statuses.. I unfriended him. He then proceeded to write comments on posts I wrote on my friends walls.. they un-friended him. Then the texts flowed in and still do 5 months later. I havn’t responded to anything. At first I was sad and it was really hard and now I just think it’s pathetic. I no longer have feelings happy, sad, or indifferent towards him. He just needs to move on with his life like I have. One of my oldest friends went through a very similar break up like I did.. she made the mistake constantly talking to him and is still struggling with moving on 10 months later. It sucks and it’s hard but clicking ignore on an ex sometimes is the best and easiest way to move on with your life. It worked for me.. it could work for you too.

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